Feel Like Retiring?
Feel
Like Retiring?
June 29,
2008
Text: Genesis
12:1-9
Gen 12:1-9
Now the LORD said to
Abram, "Go from your country and your kindred and your father's
house to the land that I will show you. 2 I will make of you a great
nation, and I will bless you, and make your name great, so that you
will be a blessing. 3 I will bless those who bless you, and the one
who curses you I will curse; and in you all the families of the earth
shall be blessed."
4 So Abram went, as the
LORD had told him; and Lot went with him. Abram was seventy-five years
old when he departed from Haran. 5 Abram took his wife Sarai and his
brother's son Lot, and all the possessions that they had gathered, and
the persons whom they had acquired in Haran; and they set forth to go
to the land of Canaan. When they had come to the land of Canaan, 6 Abram
passed through the land to the place at Shechem, to the oak of Moreh.
At that time the Canaanites were in the land. 7 Then the LORD appeared
to Abram, and said, "To your offspring I will give this land."
So he built there an altar to the LORD, who had appeared to him. 8 From
there he moved on to the hill country on the east of Bethel, and pitched
his tent, with Bethel on the west and Ai on the east; and there he built
an altar to the LORD and invoked the name of the LORD. 9 And Abram journeyed
on by stages toward the Negeb.
NRSV
When you turn fifty, you
get bombarded with invitations to join AARP.
I caved in to the pressure.
I wanted to stop those invitations.
I now get showered with offers for medicare supplements and life insurance.
Hmmm. I wonder if Abraham
had that problem.
[sit in rocking chair]
Abraham was retired, and
he enjoyed rocking on the front porch in the evening. He was seventy-five.
That just happened to be the age you could join the senior citizen association
back then. As a matter of fact, on the day he turned seventy-five, he
received this in the mail.
He was being offered a chance
of becoming a charter member of the Palestinian Association of Retired
Persons.
I can imagine him sitting
in his rocking chair, fingering the raised numbers on his card. “Might
be worth joining,” he thought to himself. He could get discounts at
local places he planned to frequent now that he had so much time on
his hands—places like Jacob’s Pizza Emporium and the Sea of Galilee
Golf Course. His wife Sarai and he planned to do some traveling, and
the card would be handy at motels. The PARP publication would give him
ideas about hobbies he could start, things that would help him pass
the time, until he passed away.
Ironically, as he mulled
all these great benefits, he heard a clear voice from within:
“Go from your country
and your kindred and your father's house to the land that I will show
you. I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless
you, and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing.”
Abraham was confused.
He’d heard that voice
from time to time throughout his life. That voice had given him direction,
guidance, comfort.
But now, this is something
else. The voice is directing him to doing something risky—something
downright crazy. Leave the home he’d worked for and fixed up
throughout his life? Why, just yesterday he’d had an in-ground pool
installed! Leave the friendships and contacts he’d made?
Leave his barber, who knew which way to part his hair without
having to ask? Leave his trusted doctor and dentist? Even more
importantly, leave his honest mechanic???
Yes, this voice that had
been so soothing and reassuring throughout his life was now turning
strange. If Abraham had been 25 instead of 75, he might have considered
it. But now, he’s old. His joints hurt. His eyes are fading. His digestion
isn’t as it used to be.
But as he mulled all this
over, something struck him. And that realization caused his heart to
beat faster, and his eyes widen. He smiled a huge smile, because
he realized what that voice was really saying to him:
YOUR FUTURE WILL BE BETTER
THAN YOUR PAST!
[get up]
You know, that’s the exact
opposite of what many senior citizens believe, isn’t it?
The common senior belief
is that tomorrow will never be as good as yesterday. Yesterday—when
the body didn’t fail, when the kids were growing up, when the spouse
was alive, when the money was coming in…you get the picture.
But what if you lived truly
believing that the best days in your life are still ahead of you? What
if you lived believing that all your past experiences—good and bad—were
preparing you for something better?
I know one thing—you’d
be extremely forward looking, and having the time of your life!
I love the attitude Winston
Churchill had. Churchill was the famous Prime Minister of England during
World War Two. One of the photographers present at his eightieth birthday
expressed the hope that he might also photograph the great man on his
one-hundredth birthday, twenty years later.
“I don’t see why not,
young man,” Churchill replied. “You look reasonably fit to me.”
When you believe your future
will be better than your past, you believe that you will outlive those
young whipper-snappers. You believe that you will wear out, not rust
out, as someone once put it. You believe that as you wear out, you’ll
do that with a smile on your face.
Your future WILL be better
than your past.
[[Go back to dramatizing
Abraham.—sit back down]]
So Abraham felt his heart
starting to beat faster. What adventures could God have up God’s sleeve?
Children, grand children, great-grandchildren? New, exotic, never-seen-before
places?
He shut his eyes, and imagined
what he would encounter…and then the smile flickered, and faded.
Where IS God leading him?
The last time he checked, there had been only one garden of Eden, and
that was no more. Wherever God would lead him, there would be people—in
strange lands, with strange customs, speaking strange languages. They
might not take too kindly to this stranger with his entourage wandering
through their country. What’s more, to get to any of these lands,
he’d have to cross a dry, desert-like area called the Negeb. That’s
dangerous territory.
So, reality wiped that smile
right off Abraham’s face. There’d be hostile people. There’d be
a rough terrain. And there’d be Abraham, all seventy-five years of
him, equipped only with his PARP card and a bottle of Geritol.
[GET UP FROM ROCKING
CHAIR]
THE TEMPTATION IS TO
LISTEN TO VOICES OTHER THAN GOD’S.
Abraham HAD to have had
serious doubts. He listened to the voice of common sense inside him.
No doubt he listened to the voice of his society that said PARP members
don’t get up and follow a voice into the wilderness.
Had he lived today, he would
have heard society’s voice loud and clear. We live in a culture that
celebrates the young, and tolerates—at best—the senior citizen.
Sometimes, society is downright
insulting to those with gray hair.
When Mae Koscheski was seventy-three,
she was hospitalized. Upon receiving her medical bill some time later,
she looked at it closely. She discovered a $70 surcharge. What caught
her eye wasn’t the amount, but the description: it was a surcharge
for “extreme age.” Now, you can argue whether or not seventy-three
is “extreme age”—the older I get, the less extreme it seems. But
you can’t argue the fact that society can see senior citizens more
as a burden, and they should be surcharged, accordingly.
If you listen long enough
to such a biased culture, pretty soon you start believing what they
say about you.
In Russia a few years ago,
a railway worker accidentally locked himself in a refrigerator car.
Unable to escape or to attract attention, he resigned himself to his
fate.
As he grew colder, he wrote
on the walls of the car the story of his approaching death. “Slowly
freezing…half asleep…these may be my last words.”
When the car was opened
the man was found dead, but the temperature of the car was only about
fifty-six degrees. The freezing mechanism was out of order. There was
plenty of fresh air available. There was no physical reason for this
man’s death. He had died because he had believed that he would die.
How many senior citizens
listen to those voices that say there’s nothing left for them? How
many believe those voices and let their spirits die prematurely—when
there is no real reason for death?
Abraham could have listened
to those voices.
[sit down]
“Yes,” he thought, “it’s
a lot easier to just sit here and not take the abuse.
“I can stay right here,
in my hometown, where I grew up. I can continue talking with the same
people I’ve known all my life. I can do the same thing every day.
Go at seven to the McHebrews for my large premium coffee, and talk with
other PARP members about the weather, how bad the world is, and how
to stretch the shekel.”
So Abraham tried to talk
himself out of it. But the more he heard his own voice, the more his
own words came back to him as dull, lifeless, listless. Was he going
to live the rest of his life talking to the same people, about the same
things, at the same time, every day?
God’s voice sounded anything
but dull! There was nothing “same old, same old,” about it. God’s
voice was different. It was intriguing, fascinating!
The lure of God’s words stirred the ashen coals in his heart, and
heat and flame jumped to life.
There was no question what
he would do. The choice between life in the circular rut, and life free
from the deadly mundane, was really no choice at all.
Sure, there would be questioning
by some, abuse by others, and doubt along the way. SO WHAT? The
chance to let life end sweeter than it began was too tempting.
He determined, right then
and there, to obey the voice.
HAPPINESS
IS OBEYING THE VOICE.
If you are of the AARP vintage,
have you heard the voice? If so, are you obeying it, or are you still
just rocking on the front porch?
I’m not retired, and haven’t
been through what many of you have been through. What I am told, though,
is that often there’s a difficult period of adjustment.
Frank was a typical type-A
personality, driven business man. Retirement hit him hard. He had several
sessions with a counselor. These are the words of his counselor:
“Toward the end of
our time together, Frank seemed to wake up from a drugged sleep…When
I saw him a year later, I had to blink to know it was the same man.
He had started his own small company, with new projects all around the
world. He was vibrant, directed, and nearly always singing. The pivotal
difference was that he stopped experiencing himself as the company had
defined him, and realized he could define himself.”
–Fast Company, 3/05, p.
89
Frank woke up from his drugged
sleep, and started living.
God’s call to Abraham
woke him from his drugged sleep.
So many of you have heard
God’s voice, and you’re so amazingly energized.
I can’t tell you how impressed
I am by the AARP folks in this congregation.
Do you know what some of
them have done?
Some started the Keepers’
Program, that you heard about today. Some work on our Care Team. Some
volunteer on odd jobs around the church; others volunteer in service
organizations in the community. Some begin service projects. Some do
truly “out of the box” things—one person in this congregation
drove a lawnmower across the United States a few years ago raising consciousness
and funds for prostate cancer awareness.
What are these crazy 55+
people doing?
They’re doing nothing
more than imitating Abraham. The man who was seventy-five, and God pointed
to him and said, “Age doesn’t stop my plans for that person! I have
dreams for him yet to be realized! He has wisdom and experience harvested
from life—and I can use that!”
So many of you will be my
role model, when I hang up my preaching shingle.
Then again, I might not
hang it up totally.
Look at this man.
He’s Gordon Cosby. After
serving as a military chaplain in WW2, he founded the Church of the
Savior in Washington D.C. It became an innovative, legendary church.
Gordon is now eighty-five.
He should have retired and started taking it easy twenty years ago,
right?
But that’s the last thing
on his mind. He still preaches every Sunday. He still makes his daily
pastoral rounds in the inner city. And he still asks challenging questions
about himself, his church, and his community.
You see, God has so much
more left for him to do.
If you have your AARP card,
I wonder what God has left for you to do?
[[get out of rocking
chair]]
So Abraham got out of the
rocking chair, and threw the PARP card in the trash. He went on to do
what God had in mind for him to do. In the process, Abraham changed
the history of the world.
You’re NEVER too old to
change things.
It might not be the world.
But…it might just be…yourself.
Let this prayer, that we
pray together, be our benediction:
Help me to believe in beginnings,
to make a beginning to be a beginning
So that I may not just grow
old,
But grow new each day
To this wild, amazing life
You call me to live
With the passion of Jesus
Christ. –Ted Loder
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