Living the Day
FINDING
PURPOSE AND PASSION IN LIFE
Living
the Day
April 27,
2008
Text: Luke
12:13-21
Luke 12:13-21
Someone in the crowd
said to him, "Teacher, tell my brother to divide the family inheritance
with me." 14 But he said to him, "Friend, who set me to be
a judge or arbitrator over you?" 15 And he said to them,
"Take care! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; for one's
life does not consist in the abundance of possessions." 16
Then he told them a parable: "The land of a rich man produced abundantly.
17 And he thought to himself, 'What should I do, for I have no place
to store my crops?' 18 Then he said, 'I will do this: I will pull
down my barns and build larger ones, and there I will store all my grain
and my goods. 19 And I will say to my soul , Soul , you have ample
goods laid up for many years; relax, eat, drink, be merry.' 20
But God said to him, 'You fool! This very night your life is being demanded
of you. And the things you have prepared, whose will they be?'
21 So it is with those who store up treasures for themselves but are
not rich toward God."
NRSV
Imagine this scene.
You’re enjoying a lovely
supper in a nice restaurant. You’re on a first date with someone you
think may be very special. Everything is going so wonderfully well,
you can’t believe it. You and your date are hitting it off fabulously.
You’re at ease with each other. Your personalities seem to be a perfect
fit. You have similar interests—even being avid Cardinal fans, and
you know that’s important for true love.
There’s a relaxed break
in the conversation. Dinner is now over, and you’re both enjoying
coffee and cheesecake, and smiling at each other. Then, your date leans
forward and says, “So tell me—what are you looking for in a spouse?”
Inside your head, you hear
screeching brakes. That’s because you know that this date is OVER!
You lose enjoyment of a
nice meal and great conversation when suddenly an agenda is placed on
the table: “What do you think of marriage—a lifetime commitment—until
DEATH do us part???”
Put concisely: You lose
excitement TODAY—the joy of the moment disappears—when you let concerns
of TOMORROW intrude.
Jesus is talking about a
man who does just that.
He’s a very successful
farmer. One year his crops produce an astronomical yield. Hundreds of
bushels of soybeans. Corn so plentiful that there were three ears to
the stalk.
You know what he could have
done with all that?
He could have stored enough
in the barns and silos he already had—they had more than enough capacity
for him. Then, he could have sold the excess, and given money to the
local food pantry and soup kitchen, feeding the hungry poor. He could
have provided college scholarships for underprivileged kids. He could
have given to a shelter for battered women.
Can’t you imagine how
he would have felt—seeing grateful looks in the faces of the needy,
the children, the abused women?
But…he never gives himself
a chance to see such smiles.
He is more concerned about
tomorrow. He draws up plans to tear down existing barns and silos.
He’ll then build bigger, state-of-the-art facilities to hold the excess.
He smiles as he dreams of how all this will increase his bottom line,
his R.O.I., his net worth. He fools himself into thinking that if he
can do this, then sometime in the future he can say, “NOW I can enjoy
today!” But you and I both know he’ll never allow himself to reach
that point.
Jesus ends the story with
these chilling words:
God said to [the man,
as he sits drawing up the blueprints for the new barns], 'You fool!
This very night your life is being demanded of you. And the things you
have prepared, whose will they be?'
“You fool!”
Here you are, on the internet,
checking on how your portfolio is doing.
Here you are, on the phone,
talking to your broker.
Here you are, trying to
figure out the perfect allocation between stocks and bonds for your
retirement.
Here you are, brushing up
your resume to apply for that better job.
Here you are, looking ahead,
building bigger barns for tomorrow, and suddenly—while you’re looking
ahead to tomorrow—you die. You never saw it coming.
This story isn’t about
not planning ahead. You have to do that.
This
story is about putting your happiness into tomorrow or the next day,
and not allowing yourself to have the full
happiness God is offering you today.
I believe God offers each
of us daily opportunities to say, “Life is good.” But do we take
them?
A man lost his wife of many
years. As he goes through her things, he opens the bottom drawer in
his wife’s bureau. He lifts out a beautiful, hand-made slip of silk
and lace. The pricetag was still on it, and it was astronomical.
The husband said to the
person helping him, “Jan bought this 8 or 9 years ago. She never wore
it. She said she was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess
this is a special occasion.”
Having said that, he lays
it out on the bed, beside the dress he’ll take to the mortician.
He then turns to his friend and says, "Don't ever save anything
for a special occasion. Every day you're alive is a special occasion."
So, how do you make every
day a special occasion?
Here’s one way.
MAKE THE DAY MORE BEAUTIFUL.
In 1958, a woman who lived
in a modest home on some acreage asked herself how she could make things
more beautiful. She decided that daffodils would do the trick. So she
began planting daffodils. For over thirty years she planted daffodils.
People would drive for miles in the spring to see them.
On the side of her house
she put this poster: “50000 bulbs…Planted 1 at a time, by 1 woman.
Two hands, two feet, and very little brain.”
Yes, but a big heart.
Where are the daffodils
you can plant?
A child who looks up to
you? Do you say, “Gotta go to work?” or “I have time to play?”
A friend who feels lonely?
Do you say, “I’ll call tomorrow?” or “I’ll stop by today?”
A person you’ve had a
falling out with? Do you say, “I’ll forgive when he apologizes?”
or “I’ll love that person as Jesus loves—and I’ll start today?”
Make sure what you do today
makes today unforgettable for someone else—make it as striking as
a daffodil garden.
How do you make every day
a special occasion?
EMBRACE THE BEAUTY.
Eugene O’Kelly was your
typical type-A personality.
He was chairman and CEO
of KPMG, a giant accounting firm. He was tremendously energetic and
ambitious. But suddenly, life as he knew it stopped. He was diagnosed
with an aggressive form of brain cancer that would kill him in 100 days.
How did he cope? In the
days following the diagnosis, he had to wrestle with his mortality.
He had to re-evaluate his life. As he put it, “I had focused on
building and planning for the future.
Now I would have to learn the true value of the present.”
He decided to write a book
about this experience: Chasing Daylight: How My Forthcoming Death
Transformed My Life. One of the things he talks about is the importance
of “unwinding” relationships with people—having intentional final
conversations with them, to bring closure.
One of the most important
lessons he learned, though, was the importance of searching for what
he called “perfect moments.” Those are the
“times of lingering over a fine meal, enjoying
a long and deep conversation, taking the time to soak up the beauty
of nature over the course of an afternoon.
I marveled at how many Perfect Moments I was having now,”
he wrote.
What are the perfect moments
in your life?
A trip to Spanky’s? Do
you say, “I’ll go if there’s time after I mow the lawn?” or
“The lawn is there tomorrow, and we’re together today!”
Sitting in comfortable silence
on the front porch as crimson creeps across the sky at nightfall? Do
you say, “Gotta go in—gotta get ready for tomorrow?” or “This
is the stuff life’s made of?”, and you let the song of silence make
music in your heart?
Each day presents you a
menu of perfect moments. Which will you choose?
How do you make each day
a special occasion?
FORGET BEING
“PROPER” AND “PRACTICAL.”
A mother took her young
son to a concert by the great pianist Paderewski. After they were seated,
she spotted an old friend in the audience and walked down the aisle
to greet her. Seizing the opportunity to explore the wonders of
the concert hall, the little boy rose and eventually explored his way
through a door marked "NO ADMITTANCE."
When the house lights dimmed
and the concert was about to begin, the mother returned to her seat
and discovered that the child was missing. At that moment, the
curtains parted and spotlights focused on the impressive Steinway on
stage. In horror, the mother saw her little boy sitting at the
keyboard, innocently picking out "Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star."
As he played, Paderewski
made his entrance, quickly moved to the piano, and whispered in the
boy's ear, "Don't quit." "Keep playing."
Then, leaning over, he reached
down with his left hand and began filling in a bass part. Soon his right
arm reached around to the other side of the child, and he added what’s
called a running obbligato. Together, the old master and the young
boy made a beautiful musical moment. All because that child didn’t
know what was “proper” and “practical.” He only wanted to explore
the moment.
Does being proper and practical
hold you back today?
When faced with an opportunity
that could open your eyes and bring a smile to your face, do you stop
and say to yourself things like…
“What will they think
if I do that?”
“I don’t have enough
[time/money/whatever] to do that.”
“Hmmm. I’ve been burned
once, I don’t want to be burned again.”
When someone is standing
by a stoplight, with a ragged sign that says, “Homeless vet—please
help”, what do you do? Run through all the reasons you shouldn’t
give, like, “What will he do with that money?” Or do you simply
hand him a one or a five or a ten, so you can see a smile and hear a,
“God bless you?”
If we’re proper and practical,
there’d be a lot of things we wouldn’t do. Then again, we wouldn’t
have the Master coming up behind us, and making a symphony out of our
meager.
Yes, that is the sound of
the end of a perfect date.
But imagine that it’s
also the sound of you stopping believing that your life lies ahead of
you.
You’ve heard the line,
“The best is yet to come.”
That’s not right. Jesus
never said that. He said the kingdom is breaking into your life TODAY.
Be rich to God TODAY, celebrating the treasures He lays before you TODAY.
The best is not yet to come.
The best is here right now. You live like that, and then truly
tomorrow will be even better than today—and hopefully, that will be
hard for you to imagine!
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